Abolitionist vs. Abolitionist - 1854
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Sarah Grimké
Introduction
Born into a family of Southern planters, Sarah Grimké developed close ties with her family’s slaves as a girl and broke South Carolina law by teaching some of them to read. Following her father’s death, she moved North, becoming a Quaker and a public speaker. She endured criticism because she appealed for the abolition of slavery, demanded woman suffrage, and debated with men. Augustus Wattles was a Quaker who educated escaped slaves and was active with the Underground Railway (a system that helped slaves to freedom). In a letter to Wattles, dated 11 May, 1854, Grimké vented her frustration with abolitionists who tried to force her into their mold.
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“We were fully aware of the severe criticisms passed upon us by many of those who showed their unfitness to be in the judgment seat, by the unmerciful censure they have pronounced against us when we were doing what to us seemed positive duty. They wanted us to live out Wm. Lloyd Garrison [another famous abolitionist], not the convictions of our own souls, entirely unaware that they were exhibiting, in the high places of moral reform, the genuine spirit of slave-holding by wishing to curtail the sacred privilege of conscience. But we have not allowed their unreasonableness to sever us from them; they have many noble traits, have acted grandly for humanity, and it was perhaps a part of their business to abuse us. I do not think I love Garrison any the less for what he has said. His spirit of intolerance towards those who did not draw in his traces, and his adulation of those who surrendered themselves to his guidance, have always been exceedingly repulsive to me, weaknesses which marred the beauty and symmetry of his character, and prevented its symmetrical development, but nevertheless I know the stern principle which is the basis of his action. He is Garrison and nobody else, and all I ask is that he would let others be themselves.”
Catherine H. Birney. The Grimké Sisters: Sarah and Angelina Grimké: The First American Women Advocates of Abolition and Woman’s Rights. 1885.